How to honour my pet after they've passed

Losing a pet is heartbreaking. They’re not just animals — they’re family. They give us unconditional love, comfort on our worst days, and joy in the smallest of moments. So when they go, it can leave a space that feels impossible to fill.

Grief looks different for everyone. There’s no right way to mourn the loss of a pet, but finding meaningful ways to honour their memory can bring comfort, connection, and healing.

If you’re looking for ideas, here are a few kind and heartfelt ways to keep your pet’s memory close.

1. Create a memory box

A memory box is a simple but powerful way to gather items that remind you of your pet. You might include their collar, name tag, favourite toy, photos, or even a letter you write to them. It’s a personal space to keep the things that tell their story — and yours.

2. Plant a tree or garden in their memory

Planting something living can be a beautiful tribute. Whether it’s a flowering plant, a tree, or a small garden bed, it gives you a space to return to — a place where life continues. It becomes a quiet, peaceful spot to reflect and remember.

3. Light a candle or create a small shrine

Some people find comfort in lighting a candle each evening for their pet or setting up a small shrine with a photo and keepsakes. It’s a way of making space for your grief, honouring the love you shared, and gently marking their place in your home and heart.

4. Donate or volunteer in their honour

You could donate to an animal shelter or rescue group in your pet’s name. Some people even sponsor another animal’s care as a way of paying the love forward. Volunteering can also be a healing way to stay connected to that bond.

5. Commission a Hairloom Pet Portrait

One of the most personal and lasting ways to honour your pet is to commission a custom portrait made from their actual fur. At Hairloom, we use your pet’s fur to create a one-of-a-kind artwork that’s equal parts tribute and keepsake.

It’s more than just a picture. It’s a piece of them — soft, tangible, and entirely unique. A way to keep them close, even after they’re gone.

Grieving a pet is deeply personal. Whether you find comfort in a daily ritual, a living memorial, or something you can hold in your hands, what matters most is that it comes from the heart. Our pets gave us everything they had — it’s okay to take your time finding the right way to remember them.

If you’re ready to create something beautiful in your pet’s honour, we’re here to help.